My association.

Often we come across novel things/people and  end up forming a formidable assocaition with it/them!
 Ever wondered why? Well. I often do and all I can fathom is the fact that anywhere/anyone that reflects back a trace of my complex being ,I end up forming an association. This is followed by a session of  looking out to exploring more of its existence so as to unearth facts about myself in general. Having led a very reclusive life throughout, I ended up creating a secure haven for myself in the soulful beats of music composed by someone accidentally, found comfort in the soothing  lyrics penned down by a complete stranger who himself/herself is oblivious of the fact that his/her words would end up giving me solace when every other measure holds no longer reliable,  found myself terming these magical words+music combinations as my life's theme songs and most importantly forming that never ending association I spoke about earlier.


Songs+Music comes handy when:


Solitude strikes, Good times beckon, Past haunts, Introspection catches momentum, Plans go disarray, A new hope emerges, Belongingness fades, Boredom reigns supreme etc etc.


In this fast paced world, there is hardly anything that would end up supporting one under so many precarious situations. Hence, create music by spreading happiness into the lives of those who matter, pen down lyrics in the form of words of comfort for those who are afraid to see a new morning and lastly compose a song that can give meaning and brighten up the day of those who may never ask you to be there, but would hope that somewhere down the line you really did.


As they sing, Please don't stop the music :)

Cheerio.

Degrees of togetherness!




Relations are the most fragile of the things that have ever existed on earth, a small error and it breaks down to never exist in its genetic form again. It is also deemed to be  the most adhesive thing that has the tendency to stick through our lives for times immemorial.
What makes it stick through? Or rather what are the key variables that makes it exist for perpetuity?
Through my experience, learning and acumen, I can garner the following as the essentials of togetherness:

Patience , Understanding and Genuineness. (PUG)

Patience: this means knowing that your friend is taking perhaps a little longer time to build that castle than you did at the first attempt, but smiling throughout the time, for you know that he is that same moron who is capable of beating you in times to come :)

Understanding: this means knowing that your sand castle, accidentally ruined by your bestie could be ruined by you as well, but the friendship nurtured by both of you for years|months|days stays! 

Genuiness: this means knowing that when your friend says, your sand castle isn't as attractive as that of the one existing besides it,he means it ;and when he says that  you are truly gifted with a butter melting smile, he means it as well.

By friend, I mean any living being|beings that holds prime  importance in your life and brings to your life the effervescent PUG trilogy to make you feel like you're cared and loved with utmost earnesty.Some relations are truly gifted, it all needs a little time and devotion to make it stick through. 
PUG together can make it stick, PUG in isolation can make it break.
Choice is yours! :)

Cheerio.